Glossary

ATTENTION- Used with focus, purpose and will. Our prime tool for creating

ACTION-Moving away from distraction, procrastination, complaining and doing and creating what you want

BELIEF-Do we create our beliefs from our experience or do we experience because of our beliefs? Are our beliefs helpful or impeding, chosen or indoctrinated?

COMMITMENT- “Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, the providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way.”

CONGRUENCE-Walking your talk. Personal integrity. Your body, mind and emotions aligned with your message.

The CONTINUUM-The spectrum of beliefs from ‘I can-I’can’t. The human experience slides from yes-no, have-have-not. The Continuum is not fixed but changes with attitude, beliefs experience & relieves the belief that life is either this or that.

DECIDE-A mental resolution as a result of consideration, to settle conclusively all contention or uncertainty & take action.

DISASSOCIATION-Ability to separate yourself from your behavior. Necessary for self-observation to create goals.

DISEASE of TOMORROW-Procrastination. Believing in later, as if tomorrow really exists. Unaligned with GRADIENCE & Goals

DYAD-Working with a partner asking questions & responding.

EPIPHANY-Life changing insight. A shock to your system.

EXPERIENCE Totality of the cognitions given by perception; all that is perceived, understood, and remembered.

GENERALIZATION-

GRADIENCE-Gentle, inch by inch, approach to life.

GOALS- A gift of life we give ourselves.

HABIT- An acquired pattern of behavior that often occurs automatically, and are repeated regularly and tend to occur subconsciously. Habits that have kept you from having what you want can be transformed into habits that bring you what you want, when you know how they work. They become resources that can change your behavior, increase your clarity, energy and surpass fears that keep you stuck. Goals can guide habits by providing the initial outcome-oriented impetus for response repetition. In this sense, habits often are a vestige of past goal pursuit.

HAPPINESS- The joy of accepting our presence as life’s present, unless stuck in habits or self deceit.

INVENTORY-Honest self-appraisal.

MAGIC-Having what you want! Living life by design, deliberately with joy and sharing the Ever Evolving Elocution of Enlightenment

MIND-Mental aberration that incessantly talks nonsense and can be trained to remember and monitor goals. A tool that can be controlled by the questions we ask.

RECOGNITION-The awareness to see, sense, hear, and feel what the ‘as is, is.’

REMEMBERING-A skill and tool that can keep you on purpose to having what you want. All our experiences are stored in our being. Remembering is the skill to access our experiences.

STINKING THINKING-Self limiting words and phrases like should, ought, have too, can’t, worry, try, hate

STORY-What we tell ourselves about our experience, made up of excuses, justifications, blame concerning our experience. 

TRANSFORMATIONAL GOALS

VALUES-What you believe to be your highest thoughts

VICTIMIZATION- Believing that someone, some thing, some past or future, other than you is responsible for your goals, your happiness.

VISUALIZATION-Using your imagination to preview, review or view in your inner w

WINS-Moving toward and/ or attaining your goals that can be chronicled and written down. How can you know where you are winning if you are not keeping score?